Nadav and Avihu die on the day of the Mishkan's dedication. Aharon is silent. Sometimes silence is the only theology.
There is no explanation offered that fully accounts for the loss. The Torah records Aharon's response in one word: vayidom, and he was silent.
Silence here is not absence. It is a form of faithfulness that refuses to reduce grief to a slogan or a lesson.
This week, if you encounter someone else's grief, resist the sentence you were about to offer. Sit with them. Vayidom.